The
Cathedral Church of the Nativity
Sermon:
Sunday October 15th, 2017
The
Very Rev. Anthony R. Pompa
How
do you get to the Party
Some years ago a middle aged man was invited to a
party. It was a big number birthday for a person he knew. What he remembered about
parties this person would throw, and this party specifically is that many didn’t want to go, in truth, he
probably could be counted among them. In fact often when an invitation would
come, the middle aged man killed the invitation immediately, by tearing it up
and throwing it away before his wife would see it. The man thought to himself, I can’t go to that
party because,
a. I have other
things to do, important things.
b. These parties are notorious for having all kinds of
people there. This host is notorious for inviting just about anybody he saw.
c. Sometimes
these parties got, well, raucous. Not unseemly mind you, but vibrant, a little
loud, sometimes a little extravagant. “I sometimes feel out of place amidst all
of that, not sure if I fit in.”
Well, party day came, and the middle aged man’s spouse
of course learned of the party, not by the invitation the man had killed by
tearing and throwing it in the garbage, but by other friends. After a long and
fervent dialogue, the two dressed and went to the party.
And it was extravagant, and it was loud, and it was
full of all sorts and conditions of people, and people the middle aged man just
wouldn’t otherwise ever had associated with, but they were all there and having
a good time, but the middle aged man still wasn’t sure and feeling a bit out of
place. And then, the music stopped.
The host of the party called everyone’s attention,
reached for a box, and then one by one, to his guests, he by name delivered to
them a small, but precious gift. Each gift thoughtfully chosen and presented to
each guest. Each guest lovingly, warmly, thanked for being there, for being
part of the celebration, for being part of the hosts life, and naming how
valued each person was and the gifts of life each guest brought to the party. It was beautiful. The middle aged man was
humbled, and grateful, and a little embarrassed inside about his reticence to
want to attend, but mostly, he was covered in gratitude, glad to be there, and
felt o.k. …..like he fit in, was supposed to be there.
A modern day story about the parable we receive today
in Matthew’s Gospel account of the wedding feast. A gospel narrative that
portrays the great feast of the Kingdom where God tirelessly invites those who
will come to a feast of extravagant love and mercy and where those who cannot
come to find it, find themselves in darkness. A feast where all too many times we out of our
own insecurities or prejudices, or stubbornness or fear, may literally kill off
an invitation to mercy. Or we may at
times be pre-occupied with the distractions of life, or our misconceived
notions of what is important, or our investment in the idols we have made of
our need to succeed, or gain social status or importance, or even an innocent
misconception about what matters most in life, may cause us to miss the
invitation to an extravagant feast of love and life, of Grace and Mercy that
God offers so persistently. . Even at times we may have found ourselves taking
the things of our lives and like the Israelites at the bottom of the mountain
waiting for Moses, spinning our fears, our impatience, our insecurities, our
inadequacies, into a golden calf that shines bright the dark contrast of our
unspoken darkest myth of our lives……that we are not o.k. That we are unworthy of such extravagant
love.
Yet the Good news couldn’t be more loud and compelling when it comes to God’s
desire for us and the Kingdom we are called to live into. The invitation comes
multiple times and when we get ourselves to the party, however we get ourselves
to the party, there is a gown of love and mercy that covers every inch of our
bodies and every ounce of our being and our hearts are changed and we know that
we are o.k. and we are worthy. And so
does everyone around us because of who we become.
So, I suppose the compelling point must be, just get to the party. I don’t know about you, about how you got to this party, but clearly somewhere,
somehow you made it to a party where this
Jesus was the host because here you are. And maybe like me you may have come
here today because you need to be reminded or ae hoping you might be drenched
or covered anew by the lavish extravagance of love and mercy the host has
prepared for us.
It is our season of stewardship here in this
Cathedral. All year long we live into the stewardship of response to the gifts
we are given by our Host by giving our time, talent and money to the kingdom
work of love and mercy. Each fall we enter our season of stewardship where we
ask the faithful to consider generosity and ask for the giving of monies to
support what we do together in Jesus name. But, hear me this day, our story
doesn’t begin or end with us asking one another for money. It begins with
accepting the invitation to come to the party and it ends with our hearts
changed and overflowing with generous love that can change everything!
For me, I was taken to the party as a child. By my
mother, whose mother took her to the party. And she, my grandmother, by her
parents who took her to the party. And the generation before that, and before
that. Anglicans, English and Welsh, who through prayer and sacrament found
Jesus, the extravagant host who gave
them a place to fit in, be o.k., to find resilience and strength for life by
being covered every inch and every ounce in a wedding garment of Love and
Mercy.
I think about the awkward teenager I was and I think
about the community of party attenders my mother chose for me. The people who
rallied around our family during difficult times where shame was the unspoken
darkness in my quiet soul but where love and acceptance prevailed through the
actions of a faithful Christian community. I learned not in my head by reciting
a creed or even by reciting my catechism or a bible verse implanted by my
extraordinary mentors and Sunday School teachers, I learned by being Loved and
shown that Jesus IS that Love, that I
was o.k., that I was worthy, that I was going to be okay, and that God working
me me and others could do wondrous things beyond my imagination or asking. I
came to know that I was loved. This because
it was written on my heart by a host of a great feast, whose name is Jesus.
Life has never been the same since.
My friend Pat Wingo, who some of you have met, a
Priest, a friend who was here as our preacher at the end of the Summer. Pat was studying in Guatemala city last
month, seeking to learn to speak Spanish. On a Sunday morning he attended the
Roman Catholic Cathedral in that city for morning mass when as he described it
to me through tears, he witnessed the bold beauty of Grace unfold before his
eyes. A Cathedral filled with all sorts and conditions of humanity, movement
caught his attention out of the corner of his eyes. An image of an older woman,
peasant woman, poorly dressed and whose face was worn hard by life. Slowly
making her way the length of this large and beautiful Cathedral. Inch by inch, slowly, deliberately, making
her way to receive communion. On her knees. Clearly with a physical impediment,
he watched with tears in his eyes, as she made her way to the Table to take
part in the feast. On her knees.
I suppose all of us come to the party in various ways.
I suppose all of us at one time or another have sought to kill the invitation,
or avoid it for whatever reason. But come to the party, this extravagant party.
And Receive your gift. Love, Mercy. You’re O.K.
Your belonging. Life can never be the same.